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Does masturbating really cause blindness?

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DL…@webtv.net wrote: >Does masturbating really cause blindness?

No, it’s just a silly joke.  People used to say that to keep kids from masturbating. Wait, who turned out the lights?  Everything’s gone black! Gray

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In article <521-38B605F3…@storefull-162.iap.bryant.webtv.net>,   DL…@webtv.net wrote: > Does masturbating really cause blindness?

Research shows that many people who have blindness with post-adolescent onset did in fact masturbate beforehand (might be too much "pinepherine" in the brain).  I’d be careful if I were you. bkt Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Before you buy.

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"Peter T. Goodman" <ptgrun…@earthlink.net> wrote in message news:38B5C6FB.2A19C15@earthlink.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> X-No-Archive: yes > Hi ToP$: > "ToP$" wrote: > > "Scooter" <ptgrun…@earthlink.net> wrote in message > > news:38B4D3EB.9C51DFC0@earthlink.net… > > > X-No-Archive: yes > > > Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of, though no one is entirely > > comfortable > > > discussing it. It’s only danger is that it causes blindness over time, so > > give > > > it up when you need glasses ;-) . Well, I’m sure you’ve all heard that one. > > blindness?!?!?  Nope I’ve never heard that one.  I hope you’re joking. So if > > mast. causes blindness won’t sex cause it as well ??? > Nope. Only masturbation causes blindness according to the dogma. The basic idea > is to discourage the practice. Actual sex with a partner other than an > inflatable doll (depending on how promiscuous your inflatable has been I guess) > carries far more risks, but I think it’s worth it. > Pete

    Well I don’t know about you but I’ve been at it for years, and my vision is crystal clear……not to mention that I’ve also been starring at a computer screen for years, but that’s another story.  They kept telling me "Stop glueing your eyes to that damn screen, and go outside and play games with people.  If you’ll keep it on like this you’ll be bling in a few years".  Well it looks I’ve stood the test for time at starring at a computer screen and……masturbating???, without going blind.  Well maybe I haven’t met my problems yet. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> > And > > > occasionally, same ass accidentally strangles himself by tying something > > around > > > their neck to increase the blood flow to the penis, thereby enhancing the > > > pleasure to the point that they forget to untie what that have around > > their > > > neck. Sorry to be so graphic. > > > This from someone with cateracts and glaucoma in both eyes. My second > > cateract > > > surgery probably coming this spring or summer–not looking forward to it > > since > > > I had major complications after the last surgery that almost cost all > > vision in > > > my left eye. And now, I don’t have The Scooter for emotional support. > > > Pete > > > ************************************************************ > > > *"Success is the ability to go from one failure to another * > > > * with no loss of enthusiasm."  -Winston Churchill         * > > > ************************************************************ > > > cheesypoof wrote: > > > > Hey Ya’ll….. > > > > I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. > > > > I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t > > > > really agree with the conclusions he drew. > > > > Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually > > satisfied, > > > > you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things > > that I > > > > could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I > > had > > > > friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and > > said > > > > hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a > > > > drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. > > Granted….I > > > > usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social > > activities, > > > > but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was > > that I > > > > wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out > > over > > > > my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this > > time > > > > that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a > > > > result of being out in social settings looking for love. > > > > Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to > > put > > > > myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if > > masturbation > > > > was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I > > > > would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not > > enough > > > > for me. > > > > I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some > > people. > > > > That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the > > person is > > > > unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), > > but > > > > it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is > > a > > > > natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the > > > > sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore > > your > > > > body. > > > > I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an > > indulgence….a > > > > completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with > > yourself. > > > > Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) > > > > *justkidding* > > > > Mike > ******************************************************* > *"Success is the ability to go from one failure to    * > * another with no loss of enthusiasm."                * > *     -Winston Churchill                              * > *******************************************************

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Cheating?  on who?  The 15 or 20 swimsuit models lined at my door every night begging me to let them in? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -clj wrote in message … >Bubbleghost <B…@sorry.no.e-mail> wrote: >>X-No-Archive: yes >>cheesypoof <cheeseypoo…@yahoo.com> wrote >>>I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a >>>completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. >>It makes me feel guilty. >Same here,I always felt I was cheating or something….I wonder if >everybody feels guilty about it at least at some stage?? >Jake

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>From: SCHMOE SCH…@home.com >LOL I get it…   :)

It went right over me!!  what did I miss??/ Pam : (

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Don’t bet on it. My mother lived 78 years and never saw a championship. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -MzPami wrote in message <20000227122614.01239.00001…@ng-ff1.aol.com>… >>From: "Twisted" >>No, being an American League umpire does. >OH NO!!!  Rick’s going into baseball mode again!!  Poor Rick, …..maybe this >will be *the* year! >Pam

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I hate those white fonts. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -SCHMOE wrote in message … >Bubbleghost <B…@sorry.no.e-mail> wrote: >LOL I get it…   :)

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Then again, most people believe in the invisible man in the sky who controls everything, so maybe it does! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jane Doe wrote in message <38B81CC6.1557B…@tesco.net>… >> > blindness?!?!?  Nope I’ve never heard that one.  I hope you’re joking.  So if >> > mast. causes blindness won’t sex cause it as well ??? >> Nope. Only masturbation causes blindness according to the dogma. >and that’s all it is – a dogma. if it was true, a LOT of people would >have gone blind ages ago…

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Don’t forget pinball. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -MzPami wrote in message <20000225203001.18165.00001…@ng-cc1.aol.com>… >>From: bkt bkt9…@my-deja.com >>Research shows that many people who have blindness with post-adolescent onset >>did in fact masturbate beforehand (might be too much "pinepherine" in the >>brain).  I’d be careful if I were you. >>bkt >That’s a pretty broad statement considering most people *have* masterbated at >some point in their life.  You might as well have said that eating green beans >may cause blindness. >I think most adult onset blindness can be attributed to gaucoma, diabetes, >cataracts, etc. >Pam

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No, being an American League umpire does. DL…@webtv.net wrote in message <521-38B605F3…@storefull-162.iap.bryant.webtv.net>…

Does masturbating really cause blindness?

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> > blindness?!?!?  Nope I’ve never heard that one.  I hope you’re joking.  So if > > mast. causes blindness won’t sex cause it as well ??? > Nope. Only masturbation causes blindness according to the dogma.

and that’s all it is – a dogma. if it was true, a LOT of people would have gone blind ages ago…

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Bubbleghost <B…@sorry.no.e-mail> wrote:

LOL I get it…   :)

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I don’t know, Pete.  Maybe it causes glaucoma!  That runs in my family, as well (glaucoma, I mean).  Haven’t got it yet, but I’m watching it (no pun intended).  I saw my mother’s cateract surgery last summer live and it was amazing.  I learned after that that the eye clininc does only left eyes on Monday, right eyes on tuesdays and so on, because they set up the equipment once in the monring then pump them through all day.  At 8 minutes per surgery, they do a lot.  My mother couldn’t see the tv before the surgery, two days later she could read the *bottom* line on the eye chart (which I can’t read). – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Scooter wrote in message <38B4D3EB.9C51D…@earthlink.net>… >X-No-Archive: yes >Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of, though no one is entirely comfortable >discussing it. It’s only danger is that it causes blindness over time, so give >it up when you need glasses ;-) . Well, I’m sure you’ve all heard that one. And >occasionally, same ass accidentally strangles himself by tying something around >their neck to increase the blood flow to the penis, thereby enhancing the >pleasure to the point that they forget to untie what that have around their >neck. Sorry to be so graphic. >This from someone with cateracts and glaucoma in both eyes. My second cateract >surgery probably coming this spring or summer–not looking forward to it since >I had major complications after the last surgery that almost cost all vision in >my left eye. And now, I don’t have The Scooter for emotional support. >Pete >************************************************************ >*"Success is the ability to go from one failure to another * >* with no loss of enthusiasm."  -Winston Churchill         * >************************************************************ >cheesypoof wrote: >> Hey Ya’ll….. >> I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. >> I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t >> really agree with the conclusions he drew. >> Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually satisfied, >> you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that I >> could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had >> friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and said >> hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a >> drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I >> usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, >> but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that I >> wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over >> my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time >> that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a >> result of being out in social settings looking for love. >> Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to put >> myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if masturbation >> was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I >> would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough >> for me. >> I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. >> That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person is >> unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but >> it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a >> natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the >> sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your >> body. >> I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a >> completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. >> Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) >> *justkidding* >> Mike

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>From: bkt bkt9…@my-deja.com >Research shows that many people who have blindness with post-adolescent onset >did in fact masturbate beforehand (might be too much "pinepherine" in the >brain).  I’d be careful if I were you. >bkt

That’s a pretty broad statement considering most people *have* masterbated at some point in their life.  You might as well have said that eating green beans may cause blindness. I think most adult onset blindness can be attributed to gaucoma, diabetes, cataracts, etc. Pam

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 dude wrote: >how is this possible though?

sexual energy seems like a very strange thing to me.  There are times that I see my sexual energy as a negative force that can add to my anxiety and alter my mood. When it feels like that, I usually have trouble concentrating and I normally become irritable. I don’t like to think about that side of sexual energy, mostly because it’s so negative. Often times, sexual energy has a positive influence. Like I said, it makes me more outgoing. It can also put me in a great mood where I feel creative and confident and sensual. That’s not to say that I wouldn’t get anxious if some hotty came over to talk to me, but it makes being out in public a lot easier to deal with. I think the difference is that  when it’s bad sexual energy, I usually want to masturbate as soon as possible to relieve myself of the tension. When it’s good sexual energy, life becomes like forplay and I enjoy the sustained feeling of arousal (that would be mental arousal, of course)…..I’m in no big hurry to ‘get it over with’. I don’t know….that’s just how I’m affected by masturbation and stuff. Perhaps I’m kinda strange for it……but whatta gonna do. Mike (did I actually say "life becomes like forplay?") I know that if I don’t masturbate for a long – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> time then I can’t concentrate on almost anything I do.  Maybe I’m just > weird. (please don’t laugh at me) Or it’s the fact that I usually have > trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see > how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I > find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I > generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious > than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird?

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I wish I could find a way to take that guilt from you. What could possibly be wrong with getting in touch with yourself (not a pun, dammit!)? Do yourself a favor and make yourself feel good. You absolutely deserve it. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> It makes me feel guilty. > — > Bubbleghost

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"Scooter" <ptgrun…@earthlink.net> wrote in message

news:38B4D3EB.9C51DFC0@earthlink.net… > X-No-Archive: yes > Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of, though no one is entirely comfortable > discussing it. It’s only danger is that it causes blindness over time, so give > it up when you need glasses ;-) . Well, I’m sure you’ve all heard that one.

blindness?!?!?  Nope I’ve never heard that one.  I hope you’re joking.  So if mast. causes blindness won’t sex cause it as well ??? And – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> occasionally, same ass accidentally strangles himself by tying something around > their neck to increase the blood flow to the penis, thereby enhancing the > pleasure to the point that they forget to untie what that have around their > neck. Sorry to be so graphic. > This from someone with cateracts and glaucoma in both eyes. My second cateract > surgery probably coming this spring or summer–not looking forward to it since > I had major complications after the last surgery that almost cost all vision in > my left eye. And now, I don’t have The Scooter for emotional support. > Pete > ************************************************************ > *"Success is the ability to go from one failure to another * > * with no loss of enthusiasm."  -Winston Churchill         * > ************************************************************ > cheesypoof wrote: > > Hey Ya’ll….. > > I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. > > I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t > > really agree with the conclusions he drew. > > Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually satisfied, > > you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that I > > could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had > > friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and said > > hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a > > drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I > > usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, > > but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that I > > wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over > > my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time > > that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a > > result of being out in social settings looking for love. > > Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to put > > myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if masturbation > > was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I > > would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough > > for me. > > I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. > > That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person is > > unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but > > it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a > > natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the > > sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your > > body. > > I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a > > completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. > > Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) > > *justkidding* > > Mike

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What is SSRI? "Twisted" <imtwiste…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:890m6j$ck3$1@nntp4.atl.mindspring.net… Make sense to me. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ToP$ wrote in message … >"cheesypoof" <cheeseypoo…@yahoo.com> wrote in message >news:88v4cu$i36$1@bob.news.rcn.net… >> Hey Ya’ll….. >> I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. >> I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t >> really agree with the conclusions he drew. >> Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually >satisfied, >> you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that >I >> could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had >> friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and >said >> hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a >> drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I >> usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, >> but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that >I >> wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over >> my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time >> that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a >> result of being out in social settings looking for love. >How is this possible though?  I know that if I don’t masturbate for a long >time then I can’t concentrate on almost anything I do.  Maybe I’m just >weird. (please don’t laugh at me) Or it’s the fact that I usually have >trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see >how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I >find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I >generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious >than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird? >> Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to >put >> myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if >masturbation >> was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I >> would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough >> for me. >> I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. >> That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person >is >> unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but >> it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a >> natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the >> sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your >> body. >> I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an >indulgence….a >> completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with >yourself. >> Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) >> *justkidding* >> Mike

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Hey Ya’ll….. I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t really agree with the conclusions he drew. Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually satisfied, you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that I could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and said hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that I wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a result of being out in social settings looking for love. Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to put myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if masturbation was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough for me. I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person is unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your body. I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) *justkidding* Mike

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Make sense to me. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ToP$ wrote in message … >"cheesypoof" <cheeseypoo…@yahoo.com> wrote in message >news:88v4cu$i36$1@bob.news.rcn.net… >> Hey Ya’ll….. >> I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. >> I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t >> really agree with the conclusions he drew. >> Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually >satisfied, >> you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that >I >> could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had >> friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and >said >> hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a >> drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I >> usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, >> but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that >I >> wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over >> my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time >> that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a >> result of being out in social settings looking for love. >How is this possible though?  I know that if I don’t masturbate for a long >time then I can’t concentrate on almost anything I do.  Maybe I’m just >weird. (please don’t laugh at me) Or it’s the fact that I usually have >trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see >how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I >find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I >generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious >than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird? >> Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to >put >> myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if >masturbation >> was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I >> would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough >> for me. >> I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. >> That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person >is >> unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but >> it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a >> natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the >> sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your >> body. >> I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an >indulgence….a >> completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with >yourself. >> Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) >> *justkidding* >> Mike

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>From: "cheesypoof" cheeseypoo…@yahoo.com >Hey Ya’ll…..

hey Mike!!  how’s it going?? snipped >Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to put >myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if masturbation >was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I >would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough >for me.

Mike, since you’re aware of the problem….what are you going to do about it. ???  You’ve fallen into a safe place and it might not always be there for you. That is exactly what happened to me.  And it could end up putting a strain on the relationship.   For both of your sakes, you should make more of a conscious effort to beat SP. : ) Keep that dr. appointment, no matter how scary it is.!! good luck poofy!!! Pam – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. >That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person is >unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but >it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a >natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the >sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your >body. >I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a >completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. >Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) >*justkidding* >Mike

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ToP$ <top_dolla…@hotmail.com> wrote:

: How is this possible though?  I know that if I don’t masturbate for a long : time then I can’t concentrate on almost anything I do.  Maybe I’m just : weird. (please don’t laugh at me) Or it’s the fact that I usually have : trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see : how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I : find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I : generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious : than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird? Not having sexual satisfaction sure don’t make me any more outgoing. That’s why I would find the SSRI "chem castration" side effect a relief. What good id a sex drive? — CAUTION: Email Spam Killer in use. Leave this line in your reply! 152680  First Law of Economics: You can’t sell product to people without money. 4968238 bytes of spam mail deleted.           http://www.wwa.com/~nospam/

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"ToP$" <top_dolla…@hotmail.com> wrote: >Maybe I’m just weird. (please don’t laugh at me)

This sort of comment comes up a lot here.  I think the suspicion that we’d regard you as strange, or would mock you, is just your SP screwing with you.  Of course we don’t see you as weird, and we wouldn’t laugh at you.  By society’s standards, all of us here are "weird." >Or it’s the fact that I usually have >trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see >how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I >find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I >generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious >than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird?

I can totally relate.  Not weird. Gray

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"cheesypoof" <cheeseypoo…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:88v4cu$i36$1@bob.news.rcn.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hey Ya’ll….. > I saw the post on masturbation and I just HAD to add my two cents. > I’m really glad that guy’s situation seems to be looking up, but I don’t > really agree with the conclusions he drew. > Speaking as a male, I can tell you that if you feel less sexually satisfied, > you become more outgoing and social. When I was single, I did things that I > could never bring myself to do now (socially speaking, of course!). I had > friends and I went out all the time. I walked up to people in bars and said > hello (which is exactly how I met my better half). I had much more of a > drive to go out and be social in spite of my terrible fears. Granted….I > usually needed alcohol in order to participate in these social activities, > but I WAS participating. The reason (which wasn’t always obvious) was that I > wasn’t having my sexual and emotional needs met. My sex drive won out over > my fear (with the help of booze). I made many friendships during this time > that seemingly had nothing to do with sex, but they were really just a > result of being out in social settings looking for love.

How is this possible though?  I know that if I don’t masturbate for a long time then I can’t concentrate on almost anything I do.  Maybe I’m just weird. (please don’t laugh at me) Or it’s the fact that I usually have trouble concentrating anyway.  Also if I’m not sexually relieved I can’t see how I’ll be more outgoing.  I know for a fact that the more attractive I find a girl, the higher my anxiety will be, so if I’m not relieved then I generally find girls more attractive than usual, therefore I’m more anxious than usual.  Can anybody relate to this or am I just weird? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Now that my needs are being met, I don’t have this overwhelming drive to put > myself through those awfully scary situations. I’m sure that if masturbation > was providing me with any reasonable substitute for my sexual needs, I > would’ve stayed home and wacked off all day. Thankfully, it was not enough > for me. > I guess masturbation can become an acceptable substitute for some people. > That doesn’t make masturbation unhealthy. It may indicate that the person is > unhealthy (especially if they develop an obsession with masturbating), but > it certainly doesn’t turn masturbation into something it can’t be. It is a > natural thing…and it can be a wonderful way to get in touch with the > sensual side of yourself, where you can freely fantasize and explore your > body. > I hope to always find time in my life to masturbate. It’s an indulgence….a > completely selfish and wonderful thing that you SHOULD share with yourself. > Now, if you’ll excuse me…..(grin) > *justkidding* > Mike

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